GOSSIP

What do we see in our minds eye when we thing about being a true christian? Do we think to turn and gossip about the person walking behind us that is different or, the person who stands out. In our "Christian" walks today we fall to the every day life of those that aren't even christian. No longer do some strive to be more like God every day. We JUDGE!!!!!!!!! We try to play and "Earthy God" Not everyone is the Perfect Christian Image!!!!!!!!! A past is in no way, shape, or form grounds for judgement. If you are choosing to take your past and make it your present than we have some accountability problems that need to be fixed... not judgments that we pass to our little friends. When we have a problem with someone, we should go to them about it... NOT EVERYONE AND ANYONE ELSE!!!!!! It bothers me to sit here and take the stares of those around me and have no idea why i'm getting those in the first place. It bothers me to hear people that are my close friends come to me and say "Have you heard what is being said about you"...NO!!! That is the point. The Game of Gossip is to to make sure that subject is the last person to know, but how many people can you pass it on before they find out. Our christain society preaches accountability, but lacks it. If more christain's stepped up and actually confronted those that they had problems with, what is the worse that could happen? You find it to be the best idea? You see that more and more things start to happen for not only the best for you, but also the best for everyone including that person. Im so tired of Gossip,... GROW UP!!!! Take a stand if its something you believe in, if its something you think to be true.

Death

No matter how fearless a person may think they are there is still one thing in life that can make a person cry and that is Death. People do alot of talk and say that they can stare death in the face and not be scared to die, to honesty is that those people hide what they feel by what they know wont happen. In all honesty i am afraid of death more than anything, and to tell you the truth at this very momenti am staring it in the eyes. being afraid dosent mean that you are weak it just means that you have a sence of life and that you can admit to it. dont be afraid to stand and say that you are afraid, dont be afraid to say that you have a fear, dont try to be something that you are not, because the whole world is there at your back and fear is staring you down. I know this from personal experience i am faceing death and it scares me to leave the ones that i love but i know that in the Future that time will come and who knows if it will be today tomorrow or next year but i do know that fear is the greatest fear itself.

"High S's"

So today we had to take something called the "D.I.S.C Profile". This is an Assessment of your personal traits. This is not to be confused with a personality assessment. Well in taking this I found myself to be a "High S, Secondary I" ok well here is what that means:

S- "Steadiness"

Description of "High S's"

• Performing in a consisten, predictable manner
• Demonstrating patience
• Developing specialized skills
• Desiring to help others
• Showing loyalty
• Being a good listener
• Calming excited people
• Creating a stable, harmonious work environment

Relating to "High S's

Try to...

• Be logical and systematic in your approach
• provide a consistent and secure environment
• Let them know how things will be done
• Use sincere appreciation
• Show their importance to organizational good
• Let them move slowly into change

Be Prepared For...

• Friendly approach to colleagues and supervisors
• Resistance to change
• Difficulty prioritizing
• Difficulty with deadlines